Kiitos, Hämeenlinna
A farewell always has two sides. The joy of seeing my own family again, of sitting on the balcony together, the morning ritual with coffee and cocoa. It is the small things you end up missing most.
On the other side, in these really short two weeks I have met so many people and been received warmly, kindly, with appreciation, personally and openly. I think I have met more new people here in two weeks than in the last two years.
That is the good thing about an exchange like this. You step out of your comfort zone, you have to open up to other people, places and customs and meet them with an open eye. Only to find afterwards that far more connects us than divides us.
Especially in times like these, when so many people wall themselves off from others and take on totalitarian traits. That has never helped anyone and has brought great suffering over so many people and nations. That is why it matters so damned much to go out into the world, to meet the people who live there, to get into conversation, to eat together, to argue and to share what you have experienced. And suddenly this huge world shrinks down to what counts: being with one another, listening, taking the other person as they are.
Getting involved with the most different people: with the quiet and shy ones, with the energetic and captivating ones, with the bird of paradise who does not really fit into any drawer, with the older man who has his own pace and a rich store of experience, with the loner who has been alone all his life and still does not seem sad. The whole range of life, intense and direct.
You are not speaking your mother tongue. Often it is hard to find the right words for what you feel and would like to tell, and still people understand you. Slowly you start dreaming in English, one or two Finnish words suddenly come out right, and the daily paths become more familiar. So much happens to you once you leave your safe space, leave the people you love and set out to discover something new.
This farewell dinner was organised by Minttu, as so much was in these two weeks. A long table, everything homemade, and on the second table all the pictures lay spread out so that everyone could take their time looking. For that I want to thank all the people I was allowed to meet here, who always met me openly and positively, and sometimes a little shyly.
Thank you to Minttu, Terho, Anu, Tuire, Tommi, Heikki, Teemu, Outi, Eeva, Erkki, Timo, Susanna, Lady Misty May, Pekka, Gabriel, Hanna, Rolf, Ville, Sami, Kathri, Janne and Noo.
See you soon in this small and beautiful town, surrounded by so much green and by the water that is your constant companion here, at the river, at the lakes or as rain from above. All that is left for me to say is: kiitos, Hämeenlinna.
Kiitos, Hämeenlinna.“Last note from the residency